Happens to me all of the time, from particular persons.
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Friday, April 19, 2019
Gaslighting
Happens to me all of the time, from particular persons.
Control
What is control and why do others try to control others?
It may be through manipulation, money, force, abuse and a myriad of other methods.
Why cant people just accept others as they are ?
I just heard the other day a phrase.. ideas have people , people dont have ideas. For example the political arena, Between the Democrats and the Republicans, people get on board of an idea, and do not waiver ,and get angry and even violent at times, if the other side does not convince the other to think like they do?
Bizarre
I may not agree with someone, but whey do we get angry if we can not convince them otherwise? They are free to feel the way they want, they may not always be free to act on their thought for feelings, but they have fee will and are allowed to feel as they wish.. Who are we to tell someone otherwise?
But what happens when your control turns into abuse and hurts others? then, that is crossing the line and is wrong. What can we do about it, call the police? they don't always help, call CPS, they dont always know whats best... a friend family, I have heard it said in Religious circles, that you can never rely on Man.. he will let you down. ( and with this, they mean mankind, not man), and that you need to give all of your cares , burdens, worries, anxieties over to God.
Does that mean , just let it go, forget about it, I guess it means , to an extent , yes let it go, empty your thoughts, move on, let him carry your burdens, but we all know that is it not that easy to do.
In Buddhism, the saying goes "take a tea" I guess that is similar, let it go? Maybe time out, relax, do the Spanish and Europeans have it right,,, take a siesta,, in the middle of the day,, can you imagine in American if someone just quit work in the middle of the day, and just stops working?
yup most likely the would be canned. it can be a cruel world out there for many , so what are they to do?
How to pick yourself up, get goals... get a life coach, the people that can afford a life coach probably are the ones who don't need one.. When you need help.. do you call a lawyer? who can afford one of those? and if you actually have a job, then the so called social services, wont help you because it for people who don't have the means... However ,even most working people don't have the means for an attorney.
People try to control you, Governments try to control you, employers control you, parents, spouses, The Legal process, People with money, who is really free?
It may be through manipulation, money, force, abuse and a myriad of other methods.
Why cant people just accept others as they are ?
I just heard the other day a phrase.. ideas have people , people dont have ideas. For example the political arena, Between the Democrats and the Republicans, people get on board of an idea, and do not waiver ,and get angry and even violent at times, if the other side does not convince the other to think like they do?
Bizarre
I may not agree with someone, but whey do we get angry if we can not convince them otherwise? They are free to feel the way they want, they may not always be free to act on their thought for feelings, but they have fee will and are allowed to feel as they wish.. Who are we to tell someone otherwise?
But what happens when your control turns into abuse and hurts others? then, that is crossing the line and is wrong. What can we do about it, call the police? they don't always help, call CPS, they dont always know whats best... a friend family, I have heard it said in Religious circles, that you can never rely on Man.. he will let you down. ( and with this, they mean mankind, not man), and that you need to give all of your cares , burdens, worries, anxieties over to God.
Does that mean , just let it go, forget about it, I guess it means , to an extent , yes let it go, empty your thoughts, move on, let him carry your burdens, but we all know that is it not that easy to do.
In Buddhism, the saying goes "take a tea" I guess that is similar, let it go? Maybe time out, relax, do the Spanish and Europeans have it right,,, take a siesta,, in the middle of the day,, can you imagine in American if someone just quit work in the middle of the day, and just stops working?
yup most likely the would be canned. it can be a cruel world out there for many , so what are they to do?
How to pick yourself up, get goals... get a life coach, the people that can afford a life coach probably are the ones who don't need one.. When you need help.. do you call a lawyer? who can afford one of those? and if you actually have a job, then the so called social services, wont help you because it for people who don't have the means... However ,even most working people don't have the means for an attorney.
People try to control you, Governments try to control you, employers control you, parents, spouses, The Legal process, People with money, who is really free?
Thursday, April 11, 2019
Happy
Is the key to happiness, just find something you love to do and do it, without regards to money, fame or attention?
It may be drawing , skiing, music , dance, a hosts of many other things that could possibly, allow you to hyper focus and get rid of all the other garbage in our heads...
You know that you love what you are doing , when it seems effortless and after a spell, you notice that 3 hours have gone by and does the phrase " where has to time gone" ring a bell?
In this fast paced chaotic world we live, in we need to something constructive to take our minds to a better place. I say constructive , because I am not advocating mind altering drugs, more in the lines of art, or exercise, something or somehow to clear our minds without the chemical induction..
It may be drawing , skiing, music , dance, a hosts of many other things that could possibly, allow you to hyper focus and get rid of all the other garbage in our heads...
You know that you love what you are doing , when it seems effortless and after a spell, you notice that 3 hours have gone by and does the phrase " where has to time gone" ring a bell?
In this fast paced chaotic world we live, in we need to something constructive to take our minds to a better place. I say constructive , because I am not advocating mind altering drugs, more in the lines of art, or exercise, something or somehow to clear our minds without the chemical induction..
Tuesday, April 09, 2019
Cruelty
why and how can some people, crazy makers , or screw up , toxic people in our lives so cruel? is it the fact that they have never grieved their past pains? should we be sympathetic to them or just run for the hills as fast as we can? They say hurt people, "hurt people" is this true or are some people just so messed up that they get joy out of causing others misery?
Do they drain the joy from you as an insect sucks the blood from you , with no feeling or guilt , but just as a way to survive?
I am finding it difficult to grasp this concept.
Do they drain the joy from you as an insect sucks the blood from you , with no feeling or guilt , but just as a way to survive?
I am finding it difficult to grasp this concept.
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